for my son
Not sure if they served plates of baked ziti or
spaghetti at the middle school sports banquet.
I’m sure you didn’t have a salad or green beans.
When your Mom and I entered the cafeteria
in time for the awards, we found a spot at a table
in the back as Science, Social Studies, Gym teachers
who double as the coaches took turns, saying a few
words about players, game recaps, stories of practice.
Medals and certificates, given for participation.
Special awards given to individuals as well.
But you didn’t get an award for fastest runner
on the Cross Country team, nor for scoring the
most goals. Tonight, your name wasn’t called
for the MVP awards for any of the teams.
Your coach said a few words about each player
as they came up to the little stage and just before
it was time for you to be called up, the coach
stopped to tell everyone about the next player,
a respectful student, a solid player, good at defense,
and quite mature for his age. He told the crowd how
he felt about a boy who always shook his hand at
the end of each practice, after each and every game.
With this anecdote, the coach awarded you
and us, your parents the greatest honor of all-
One not made of bronze, or silver,
or printed on a fancy certificate.
Not sure if they served plates of baked ziti or
spaghetti at the middle school sports banquet.
I’m sure you didn’t have a salad or green beans.
When your Mom and I entered the cafeteria
in time for the awards, we found a spot at a table
in the back as Science, Social Studies, Gym teachers
who double as the coaches took turns, saying a few
words about players, game recaps, stories of practice.
Medals and certificates, given for participation.
Special awards given to individuals as well.
But you didn’t get an award for fastest runner
on the Cross Country team, nor for scoring the
most goals. Tonight, your name wasn’t called
for the MVP awards for any of the teams.
Your coach said a few words about each player
as they came up to the little stage and just before
it was time for you to be called up, the coach
stopped to tell everyone about the next player,
a respectful student, a solid player, good at defense,
and quite mature for his age. He told the crowd how
he felt about a boy who always shook his hand at
the end of each practice, after each and every game.
With this anecdote, the coach awarded you
and us, your parents the greatest honor of all-
One not made of bronze, or silver,
or printed on a fancy certificate.


